Get Ready For Ms. Nicole Grays Owens On Adult Talk With IB

 It is Friday and do you know what that means? Well, depending on who you are and where you are, it can mean different things, but here on Adult Talk With Inspirational Beauty it means we have a guest!

So, that means I have to get up, brush my hair, put on my red poppin" lipstick, and six inch heels. Well not quite. But a girl can dream cant she? LOL

Happy FRIDAY Beautiful people!

I think the red pppin lipstick will do, because I have to get ready for who's up FIRST HERE ON  ADULT TALK WITH IB?

Ok guys and dolls, I want yiu to loosen up, so sit back and relax and meet our guest today with open arms because she is lively, bold, and authentic. I have been following this young lady for a while through social media because there is just somthing about her. Shes sleek, steady, and unapologetic. 

Who is this woman?

WELL.....

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Lets find out.

Ms. Nicole Grays Owens "AKA" #Nikko

A Model, Stylist, Entrepreneur, Actress, Writer and in her own words a SEDUCTRESS!

Lets just say we are going to have a good time, talking about those things behind the curtains. "wink wink"

So this is how today's conversation will go today. Get your pen and pape ready to take notes. You have one minute!

 As I wait, Im gonna sit up here and finish listening to a little Mary J Blige! 

YASSSS!!.

Ok, so I think I hear this "Beauty" coming down the hall right now. So let me get myself together.I do have a little home trainng, right Ma?(smile)  Something tells me Ithat this interview will be deliciously fun!

So lets get right into it.

Welcome To Adult Talk with Inspirational Beauty

Ms. Nicole Grays Owens, welcome to #ADULTTALKWITHIB..... You are looking exceptionally beautiful as always. Thank you for stopping through!

Nikko-THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME KIMBERLY! I CAN'T WAIT TO GET IT STARTED...WHAT DO YOU HAVE FOR ME?

IB- Ok... you asked for it .Well young lady, you are a lady with many talents. So lets make this fun and  tell us in alphabetical order five of your talents! 

Niko- Ok, I see how you roll already(smile) Alright lets do it. 

1.ACTRESS

2.ETIQUETTE COACH FOR YOUNG LADIES & GENTLEMEN (AGES 8-18) AND FOR MILLENNIALS ENTERING 3.CORPORATE AMERICA

4.WARDROBE STYLIST

5.WRITER

6.LOVER/MODEL/SEDUCTRESS - I DON'T COUNT VERY WELL LOL *WINK*

IB- No worries.... Hey... when you are blessed with many talents and gifts its hard to leave something out. You shouldn't be so doggone gifted.(LOL). Plus you get extra points for sharing those things in alphabetical order(smile)

I notice you shared that you are a lover and a SEDUCTRESS! I cant wait to get into that a little more. I'm sure our readers are just as interested to hear more about that as well #Nikko!

So I know already, you're going to make this interview really easy for me. I would say its a conversation, that can go "anywhere" at "anytime" just like I like it. Now, I've seen you all over social media and you are a larger than life personality. 

Tell me something that no one knows about you.(devilish laugh)

Nikko- OOH GIRL... Kim you are definitely trying to get me to tell all my secrets.(LOL)

PERIODICALLY I BATHE WITH CHAMPAGNE. (smile) ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN. I KEEP AN INEXPENSIVE BOTTLE OF ROSE' CHILLED AT ALL TIMES AND WHEN I'M FEELING MYSELF I POP THE CORK, TAKE A FEW SIPS, THEN AFTER I'VE LATHERED UP IN THE TUB, I POUR THE REMAINDER OF THE BOTTLE ALL OVER MY BODY, STARTING WITH MY HAIR ALLLLLLLL THE WAY DOWN TO THE TIPS OF MY TOES AND LATHER SOME MORE. #BUBBLIN' (I'M SUCH A GIRL)

IB- So let me get this straight, you start off by sippin a little, and then you pour some into the water starting with pouring into your hair. Now thats DOPE! #gotta Try It. I have a feeling our readers may be thinking of doing this theselves(LOL).

Lets shift a bit......Tell us how you got into your current profession and current projects.

Nikko- THE JOURNEY TO WHERE I AM NOW HAS BEEN ONE HAPPY ACCIDENT  OR INCIDENT AFTER ANOTHER. IF I WERE TO ACTUALLY TELL THE STORY YOUR READERS WOULD BE BLURRY EYED. LET'S JUST SAY I'VE BEEN EXTREMeLY FORTUNATE TO BE IN THE RIGHT PLACES AT THE RIGHT TIMES, AND I WAS PREPARED FOR WHAT WAS PROPOSED. 

 WHETHER BEING ASKED TO BE A CAST MATE ON TWO DIFFERENT REALITY SHOWS (STILL IN PRODUCTION) OR STYLING FOR CLIENTS OR APPEARING AS A SPECIAL GUEST ON A SHOW OR PODCAST...IT'S ALL BEEN RELEVANT TO MY BRAND AND JUST FELT RIGHT, SO I ROLLED WITH IT. IF IM NOT FEELIN' A PROJECT I WONT TOUCH IT OR ATTACH MY NAME TO IT. BUILDING A BRAND IS HARD WORK.. EVERY THING I DO, SAY, POST  OR GO IS DELIBERATE, INTENTIONAL AND THOUGHT OUT - WHETHER THE INTENDED AUDIENCE KNOWS IT OR NOT.

IB- I can see that you are methodical in your approach. I believe tha'ts what makes you stand out. Your focus and attention to detail is noticeable.  

You ready to have some fun?

Ok... Idris or Omari Hardwick? 

NIKKO- NEITHER. DON'T GET ME WRONG...LOVE BOTH OF THESE TALENTED AND INCREDIBLY HANDSOME BROTHAS, BUT I'D GO METHOD MAN, RICK ROSS OR THE BACKWARDS GUITAR PLAYING CHARACTER (PLAYED BY TERRANCE HOWARD) IN "THE BEST MAN". I DON'T GO FOR THE OBVIOUS. WANT THAT DUDE THAT EVERYONE WANTS, BUT ISN'T ON MAINSTREAM RADAR. THAT'S THE DUDE I WANNA CONNECT WITH, BE SEEN WITH, AND HIT THE RED CARPET WITH. AND IF HE'S UP TO TASK I MIGHT GET HIM PREGNANT SO WE CAN GO HALF ON A BABY. *LAUGHING OUT LOUD* IF THOSE DUDES AREN'T AVAILABLE GIMME LIL KIM, RIHANNA, CARDI B. OR TEYANA TAYLOR - NOT THAT I DATE WOMEN, BUT JUST AS A BACK UP PLAN. 

IB_ Wow! Thats funny.... Lil KIm, may be a little to short(LOL). so, you dont go for the obvious. I get it. You kind of go against the grain, not because you're trying to prove anything, but that's just simply who you are. Method Man was dope back in the day though!

IB_. Now we know you're beautiful, smart, and sexy but youre quite funny as well. Where did you get your delicious humor? 

ME? BEAUTIFUL, SMART AND SEXY...NOOOOO (SAY IT AGAIN, SAY IT AGAIN...LOL'ING). THANK YOU KIMBERLY. MY WICKED SENSE OF HUMOR DEFINETLY COMES FROM MY MOMMY. SHE GAINED HER WINGS DECEMBER 21, 2015, BUT I KNOW SHE'S RESTING IN ROSES, SIPPING ON A GINGER ALE, HOLLERING OUT BODACIOUSLY "HEFFA, YOU'D BETTER SAID ME OR I'D COME BACK JUST LONG ENOUGH TO HAUNT YOUR A**." 

 MY MOM NEVER HELD HER TONGUE AND SO I HAVE GREAT DIFFICULTY HOLDING MINE. I DON'T SEE MYSELF AS 'FUNNY' AS MUCH AS I AM 'FLIPPANT'. ONE OF MY FAVORITE CATCH PHRASES IS "IT AIN'T EASY BEING GREASY BUT IT SHO IS SLICK", THAT OR SLIDING SOME SONG LYRIC SMACK DAB IN THE MIDDLE OF MY CONVERSATIONS WITH PEOPLE. I LOVE MUSIC AND USUALLY SOMEBODY'S SOMETHING WILL JUST SLIDE IT'S WAY OUT MY PIE HOLE.

 WHILE I'M BUMPIN MY GUMS. I ALSO HAVE MY OWN LANGUAGE. I MAKE UP WORDS TO SUIT THE SITUATION AND PEOPLE FIND THAT ENTERTAINING. TRUST ME, ALL COMEDIANS ARE SAFE, THAT IS NOT MY AREA OF EXPERTISE. THIS PRETTY FACE JUST LET'S ME  GET AWAY WITH BEING SLICK-MOUTHED AND OFF BEAT. SO FAR NO ONE HAS POPPED ME IN THE KISSER SO I'M DOIN AIIIIIIIGHT.

IB-LOLOLOL 

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Whats your favorite body part?

NIKKO_ON ME? ON WOMEN? OR ON MEN? GURL, YOU GOTS TO BE SPECIFIC!

ON ME: IT'S A 4 WAY TIE BETWEEN MY BOW-LEGS, LIPS, NEW BREASTS AND MY NEW BOOTY.

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ON WOMEN: I WILL HAVE A GIRL CRUSH QUICK IF A CHICK HAS NATURALLY BOMB A$$ HAIR. ONE OF MY FAVES IS RAPPER, JIM JONES' CHRISSY LUMPKIN. I'M SO IN LOVE WITH HER, BUT IT'S HER HAIR THAT MAKES HER MY CRUSH..

ON A MAN: CHILE...THAT LIST IS LONG AND MANDATORY BUT FOR GIGGLES I'LL GIVE YOU - HIS LIPS, SMILE, HEIGHT (IS HEIGHT A 'BODY PART'? IF NOT LET'S MAKE AN EXCEPTION) AND HIS HEART...WHAT'S IN A MAN'S HEART IS EXTREMELY SEXY TO ME AND INTELLIGENCE IS A DEFINITE TURN ON! #NERDBOYSRULE

IB- You know what Chrissy Lumpkin HAIR IS THE BOMB (smile) It's good to hear a woman says she loves different parts of herself. I have dedicated my life reminding women how beautiful they are, so it is really refreshing to hear how much you love being a lady. Plus we get to wear dope hair, nails, outfits and LIPSTICK(smile)

I believe that also isone of your mantras #DOPESINCE69

You know Im going to interject, because this conversation is so smooth and effortless Iwant our readers to feel the vibe right now......

You know what Nikko?

 I don"t want to give our readers to know  everything in one take, so we are gonna put a pin in it right here. I Know I Know, it was just getting good. But, veryone get ready, because we go deeper in our continuation where  Nikko will share what she would change about herself, and she will put me in the HOT SEAT during our #ASKIB portion,

I don't  know if you're ready. I don't think I'm ready....lol

So make sure you cam back next week to find out more, in the mean time you can follow her at 

WEBSITE: NICOLEGRAYSOWENS.COM (E-COMMERCE STORE ON SITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION HOPING TO LAUNCH IN TIME FOR HOLIDAY SHOPPING)

EMAIL: NICOLE@NICOLEGRAYSOWENS.COM

FB: NICOLE GRAYS OWENS (personal page)

FB FAN PAGE: NICOLE GRAYS OWENS

TWEET: @IAmNicoleGOwens

IG: NICOLE_GRAYS_OWENS

SNAP: NGO 1969 (DOPESINCE_1969)

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This Wednesday we will have a continuation of

THIS INTERVIEW with 

NICOLE GRAYS OWENS

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How To Keep Your Partner Interested on Adult Talk With Inspirational Beauty

How To Keep Your Partner Interested

Adult Talk With Inspirational Beauty

It is a BEAUTIFUL MORNING!! 

As I sit here at my desk this morning writing to you, I'm sipping on a lukewarm cup of coffee.0(ughhhhh Actually I hate "lukewarm" anything, but when I'm writing,I get engrossed in the moment, and it never fails....what started off "piping" hot ends up becoming room temperature! You would think that I would be used to it by now, but I guess that's what microwaves are for.(smile).

So  as I made my way back to the kitchen to reheat my cup of"Joe" I put on  my cute fluffy socks, ponytail holder, my  pink head phones,"TURNED ALL THE WAY UP' to the maximum. So imagine this.... I'm strutting down the hall  listening to a little JayZ's Blueprint(yeah I'm ol school) .... eyes closed, cup of coffee in my right  hand, and the other hand on my hip  doing the "milly rock"

READY TO GET THIS DAY STARTED

If only my assistant could see me now, she would probably join me in a twenty minute dance off.LOL. So  back to the coffee. I put the coffee in the microwave but didn't set the timer, because I realized I needed to eat something, so I decided to make something  a little different, so my mind started trying to be creative. I didn't want the same old breakfast that I prepare everyday so I decided to make some crepes. You may be wondering "crepes"? You have time to do all that, plus run a business, have meetings, make videos, and write?

YESSSSSSSS! I LOVE MY FOOD!

So here is what I made today people!

Aren't they beautiful? So here is a link so that you can make cool crepes too. I mean after all sharing is caring right?(lol)

Do you wanna hear something funny? I never did re-heat my coffee. I totally forgot that it was in the microwave!

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GEESH!!

Well it was probably for the best. 

So back to my desk..... .in my comfy chair, that leans back just right. I now have to get in the mood to talk about something that I cant wait to share with you guys. But first I have to turn off "HOV" and put on a little "Luther". Thats right a little Luther Vandross. 

SO GET READY!..

Welcome to ADULT TALK WITH INSPIRATIONAL BEAUTY! #ADULTTALKWITHIB

So as  I sit here listening to Luther, he is using that good ol' silky voice to talk about"Creepin". Now that's an entirely different topic from today's topic, but I promise you we will definitely visit that  in future blogs,but today we are focusing on something that we all need help with from time to time.

Today we are focusing on "How To Keep Your Partner Interested"

You know, a couple of days ago I was on social media, and talking with a couple of you and asked you the question, and you had some really great ideas, and even deep thoughts concerning this mater. You know, so often we want things to change, but the problem is we don't know how to make those changes happern.

Well you are in luck. I'm not saying I have all the answers, but I can bring a little bit of objectivity to the situation. I'm just like many of you, I'm no stranger to trying to make my personal relationship work. I would often find myself mystified, because I thought I tried it all, but let me tell you something right now, none of us have TRIED IT ALL!

when you really desire something or someone, you try and do your best, and then and only then will you be able to walk way if you have to,

so why do we even care if our partner remains interested?

i believe it says a lot about you as a person to want to go deeper  with that MAN.... with that WOMAN! 

Getting their interest is easy, but maintaining and keeping it is a different story. You may be thinking you don't have time, things have changed, and you're just too exhausted.

Well,  I don't want to put more on you, but lets just look at some simple things that can get  you back on track. I'ts not the "cure all" for a relationship that may be ending, or on its last leg like a dying animal hit on the highway(smile) but for those that just want to spice things up a bit, these are some fun things you can do.

Before we get into it,   lets look at why your partner may "believe" they are losing  interest in the first place. So lets make it simple. Since I am a Coach I love "steps, tips and  anything that I can put a number beside.(LOL) 

So lets start with The Basics.

1.Partner Has Changed

2. Sex or Lack of Good Sex

3. Money

4. Effective Communication

Now for the sake of getting through this blog without creating a headache for you or myself, lets just stick with these four just on today. On Wednesday I promise we will continue with some things that are on the list that you may be unaware of. I am a person who loves to look at problems to try to understand them and come to some resolution if possible. Presenting the problem is just the first step, but it should never end there.

 Are you ready to dive in?

Lets DIVE!

Challenge:PARTNER HAS CHANGED

1. We have all heard this one before, but I want to challenge this statement a little bit.Now most people may believe this means the individual has  changed for the "worse. I want you to take a pause for about 15 seconds right here  because changing for the better can also be a problem for some relationships.(will share on a later blog). But lets keep this simple right now. These are common scenarios, because all people will change at one point or another for different reasons. But some of  the specific complaints are things like.....

" She doesn't clean anymore."

"She doesn't keep herself up anymore."

"She doesn't respect me anymore"

or

"He doesn't show me any attention anymore, or give me affection."

" He just wants sex,doesn't want to take me out anymore."

" We are not interested in the same things anymore."

So, if you are over the age of 18 you have either heard these before, or have stated them before.Lets start with the good news first. YOU ARE NOT ALONE(smile).

Every person in the world has felt like this at times whether they will ever admit it or not. Its so easy to judge one another . Especially those closest to us because we feel like we hold that "right" or "position" because being  closest to them qualifies us to constantly remind  each other of our short comings. 

Ok... so the PERSON HAS CHANGED, or they're not doing what they used to do. What 'Im going to share next is really going to surprise you. There are only two reasons why any of us stop or start to do anything.

1. Pleasure or Pain

Ask yourself, when you first started dating, you did all these things  to keep yourself up because it was going to net "You" some "PLEASURE." You see, we ladies get all dolled up because we like the way that it makes us feel and we like what we see, but we LOVE WHEN YOU NOTICE(pleasure)

As time goes on, some time life gets a little harder, and now we have kids, demanding jobs,crazy schedules, and now its "PAINFUL" to take time for ourselves because other things will get behind. (you know what IM talking about) . So what started off as fun, has now become a challenge, and the "partner" thinks you no longer care. that may be the case, because on the list or priorities it may have to take a back seat. it should.....

TEMPORARILY 

Confusing?

Impossible to change back?

Not at all....

This is is where self care comes in.As our lives chanege we may have to rearrange some things but its important for your well being, and for your relationship.So here are a few suggestions.

SOLUTIONS;

1. When you see your partner no longer keeping themselves up, they are probably overwhelmed. Suggest a "TAKEOVER". You will then take over a duty or several duties for a 24 hour period, so they can recharge, doing something fun, or be pampered. The key is to NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER.

Make it fun and present a "TAKEOVER" coupon.

Try it, its fun, sexy and adds spice to any relationship.Now if your partner is very busy you may have to schedule this "TAKEOVER" so that it will work. Have fun.It can be a 24 hour period, 48 or 72, but the goal is to help them get back on track, and you get ALL THE BENEFITS!

You can Thank me NOW!

Now lets look at number 2.

Challenge: Sex or Lack Of Good Sex"

2. SEX is such a small word but such a REAL ISSUE FOR MOST RELATIONSHIPS! Lets visit this challenge. Sex can present challenges, and I choose to call it a challenge because that means that it can be conquered. That's great news.  I don't  really believe in problems, because it tells me something is impossible, so  instead a "challenge" denotes things  may be difficult  but not Impossible to overcome. 

My intention is not to get "overly" deep about sex because that's not the point we are going for in today's blog. But in every relationship sex is either stressed as a "NEED" or a "WANT', and depending on the relationship it can be either or even both.

But generally in every relationship there is one  person who may express it as a NEED more than the other person, and that may cause some problems if not communicated in a positive way.. So you may hear things like this....

"She doesnt give it to me like I need it."

"I don't feel comfortable doing that with him."

" I need more variety to satisfy me"

"Its always the same, I do'nt even want it."

"I don't feel sexy anymore, I don't want to show him my body."

So some of these issues are with the individual not feeling adequate, and some of the other statements have to do with not feeling satisfied. So lets get to a solution on this one. It's very simple.....

SOLUTION:

2.COMMUNICATION. 

Simple right?

I'm going to go a little deeper here, not only communicate your needs to your partner, but learn how to communicate your needs to yourself.You do that by accepting that you are beautiful,  attractive, amazing, interesting, and deserved to be loved, That allows you to feel more comfortable with yourself and it provides a safe place for your partner .

Great love making is all about feeling safe for a woman. She must feel comfortable with her body, her emotions and that these things are reciprocated from her man. She must feel connected.

AMAZING Love Making for a man, he must feel like you are enjoying what he is offering. He wants to hear your excitement, he wants to feel your body move along with his. He wants to see your enjoyment. He will connect more physically and that will eventually translate to  more emotions from him because he feels you trust him, and he can trust you as well., 

So here is a little exercise.

1 Men....,If you are desiring more intimacy and sex from your partner provide a safe place for them. So gentlemen, take her somewhere really nice and make it all about her. Also do something to focus on the little things,

 A MUST GIVE HER ATTENTION, AFFECTION and ADORATION....

Doo a small scavenger hunt, and put a couple of items around the house or in the car of things that speak to her heart, and end the night with a nice foot massage or back rub, whisper in her ear she is the only one for you....... and Enjoy!

2. Women if you are desiring more intimacy in your love making from your Man, lead with CONFIDENCE,. don't be shy. Don't hold back on letting him know how much he pleases you, and how much you love him. Is this EGO STROKING? Yes....Men are simple, not stupid. Just simple. But you don't have to lay it on thick. CONFIDENCE  and  being uninhibited is enough to get him going and keep him interested. So when he comes home do the unexpected, Be creative! Enjoy

So lets talk about number "3" 

3. Challenge: Money Issues

"Whoever has it, has control."

Is that a fair statement?

I would say there's a little bit of truth to it. Sohere we go. In America it is estimated that 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce, and one of the main issues is due to finance. You know.... MONEY...DINERO...CASH...CURRENCY....COINS.

When I was younger  I always believed that as long as you had love, that there was nothing that you couldn't conquer.I still believe that to be true, but I had to understand the ways of the world. Now that I am more mature and look for more practical  solutions, things have become a little easier.  Mos of us get married or get into relationships because we love that other person, but we forget that apart of being able to grow as a unit we must have a plan for our money. (We will talk about "Money Matters" on another blog0, but for right now we want to see what we can do right now to change some things. 

Some people don't believe that money or lack of it, or understanding it can cause a "riff" or loss of interest in a relationship. Not only can it, 

IT WILL DESTROY A RELATIONSHIP IF NOT RESOLVED.

How will it affect interest or lack of interest from your partner?

Well money is an extension of your relationship. It is a way that we bring safety and security into our relationship as well as supplying needs and wants. This can affect every area of a relationship because money is the only form of currency in our modern world.There is no longer the "Barter" system. Everything from wants and needs have to be supplied with MONEY. Something that important needs a plan. 

Sidenote:Its very attractive when A Man knows how to handle his money.

Have a conversation and listen to one another about your plans for your collective finances.

So Start by setting a time, date, and place to sit down at a coffee shop and go over your short term and long term goals where your money is concerned.

When you both come together, you are both putting value and respect on your present and your future. A person who values these things will help the relationship grow, and therefore the interest too. 

So I believe we've covered enough today. As a matter of fact a lot of you have shared with me  what you do to keep your partners interested. So check out the blog then to hear from some of you and what you had to say.. I cant wait. 

Also check out who will be our featured guest right here on #AdultTalkWithIB none other than the Ms. Nicole Grays Owens #NIKO.... shes coming with the fire. if you dont know her now, you will . Beautiful, smart, funny and Stylists to the Stars. Lets see what shes up to. 

Check out this week on our live radio show on # SimplyIB the Sophisticated and Amazing Maverick in Business and Personal Development. Mr Ruben West this Wednesday on #SimplyIB at 8 pm eastern or dial 845 241 9898 

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This Wednesday we will have a continuation of

HOW TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER INTERESTED.

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TIME TO LEVEL UP.... This is Bahrain ....

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Introducing AdultTalk with Inspirational Beauty

Well.....it is official!  its finally here.....(drumroll please.....) Its what you all have been waiting for......ADULT TALK with INSPIRATIONAL BEAUTY!!

Somehow that introduction sounded better in my dreams(LOL).Anyway, thanks for stopping by to join me on my latest adventure. Yes, I call this an adventure of sorts, because it actually is for me.

You see, this is where it all started for me. Most of you already know me, and you know that  I first came to you by writing inspiring post's on FACEBOOK a couple of years ago, and I  really wasn't prepared for  what came next, but it all started with my first blog
 The Inspirational Corner that still stands today.

 In my first year I hit over 4 million viewers and had no clue about the BLOGGING WORLD.

Since then, so much has happened family, and I have seen many blessings. I went on to become a Radio Personality and host, a producer, creating my own station and establishing a couple of Enterprises. I even  got my feet wet in television, writing scripts and "ghost writing"books for others, creating a couple of courses, products and services as well as becoming a Life Coach!

 Lets just say the least I've been busy. (smile)


I mentioned earlier that I was blessed, and  that I was able to achieve so much in the last couple of years since writing my very first post, but allow me to explain a little, we all are blessed, but its when we are obedient that the blessings will flow.

I truly believe it was because I finally stepped into my main reason for being created.  Now that's a lot to take in for some of you, but most of you will get what I'm trying to convey.

I believe that I was intentionally created to inspire, empower, and to motivate all of humanity. It was only when I accepted that information that I prospered. We will talk about that another time(smile)

 So why am I coming back "now' to create another blog, especially since I have a full plate?

 It's interesting that you ask(smile)

Do you remember the first time you fell in love? It was so sweet, so easy, and it  just made you feel safe, and like there was no one else in the world but you and that other person.

Well, that is what writing has always been for me. Its my first love, its what first introduced me to all of you .It was like yesterday, when I first saw my thoughts on paper, and the words flowed through my pen, like caramel on a sundae.It was smooth, effortless, a little messy, but good going down.

It was that safe place, that place of comfort. A place where I could be myself , no matter what.

You know that feeeling?

Just me, myself and I, along with my own thoughts and a blank canvas.

A lot has happened since then, and I've stretched  myself in ways I've never thought possible. So what you will see in this blog is the evolution of who I am today.

 You may ask yourself, why "ADULT TALK"?

That's a great question!

I wanted a place where you and I could be free, free form judgement, false expectations, and a place to open up. I mean, we are adults right?

Since coming to you all in the past couple of years, I have learned a lot, and there is still so much to learn. As a radio host and Life and Relationship Coach, I have talked to thousands of people, about almost everything imaginable, and what I've found, is at the core we all want and need to be heard. We all desire to feel accepted by those closet to us.

Some will have you believe that they don't need anyone,

THAT IS A LIE!

We all need someone. That is the design of humanity.

Can we talk about it? 

You know, we all have to face some hard truths at times, and look things squarely in the face, so we can conquer them and move on. You may not want to deal with it, but you must deal with it.

Here are questions I've had to face in my own life.

How do you deal with loving someone who is not completely ready to love you back?

How do you continue to fail but you know that you are meant to be more?

How do you learn to love yourself when you don't feel worthy?

How Can you make more money without sacrificing your family time?

These are just some of my battles. I want to be real, open and honest so you can see that we are not so different after all,. I know what it feels like to be rejected.It hurts to the core, but I also know what its like to deal with, and  how get over it so that I could have a happy prosperous life.

So what should you expect in this blog?

CONNECTION.....

This is a place to bring us all together to share, to inspire, to give. Being an Adult is not always easy or glamorous, but its a blessing that we all share in common. So even though I'm Inspirational Beauty I am here to simply be your tour guide. I may have the questions, but deep inside you have the answers.


BUT HOLD UP!!!


THIS BLOG..... 

 is not just to answer the tough questions, we are going to have some fun as well! You will be my welcomed participants in fun and outrageous games, features and guest blogging \ right here.

YOU like food?

share your  favorite healthy recipe with me....

Do you like beautiful dining and vacations?

Do you want to be connected to fun and exciting people?

So.....lets start this thing off right!!

If this is your very first time meeting me, please excuse me, Where are my manners?(smile)  My name is Kimberly Arrington but also  affectionately known as Inspirational Beauty. Very simply put, I am someone who inspires others, and who sees the beauty in all things.

That may seem overly optimistic, but I guess I could be called worse. I also have another side to me, I don't scare easily from the truth, knowledge or wisdom. I am not blind to the realities of life, but instead try to focus on how to make a difference. For that simple reason, I have writings, lessons and blogs dedicated to inspiring, empowering and motivating. 

I recently just finished a 30 day journey where I needed more clarity in my life and I will be sharing more of that with you all very soon as well.

My JOURNEY TO 45.

Life is a journey for all of us all. dont shy away from it.

So that leads me back to what w are here for today. I want to hear from you on this blog, who you are, where you're from, your thoughts, ideas, and even adviec from leading experts in  in LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS and  LIFE.

So today I need you to do a couple of things in the comments below

1. Tell me who you are

2.Tell me where you're from

3. One interesting thing about you I should know

4. Tell me what you hope to gain from this blog

5. Drop a pic


READY......SET....GO

Its been my pleasure and will see you soon!

This Wednesday on #ADULTTALKWITHIB lets talk relationships...

"HOW TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER INTERESTED" 

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